Note: Violence, Authenticity & Integrity – The Superpower Most People Don’t Have

The truth is: when you start talking about violence, most people make stupid faces. They fake discomfort, hide ignorance behind a faint smile, and then say the infamous, “it’s not my business.”
Don’t count on compassion. Don’t count on understanding.
The social reflex is simple — turn your head and pretend the topic doesn’t exist.

And you know what? At the end of the day, the only person you can truly count on is yourself.
And maybe this will surprise you, but… that’s enough.

Because if you still have the courage to speak the truth, if you’re not afraid to name violence for what it is — even when no one reacts — it means you carry a strength those people simply don’t have.
Those who avert their eyes simply don’t possess that kind of power.

And if, like me, you’re one of those who, against all odds, choose truth and authenticity — then congratulations. That’s rare. That’s a superpower.
And you should be damn proud of it.

They Look, But They Don’t See

When I look back at situations where I was being wronged, the pattern was always the same: people saw, but pretended not to see. Because it’s easier that way. Because it’s safer. Because “I don’t want to get involved.”

I’ve seen the same thing happen to others — people standing by, watching it unfold, sometimes even laughing.
As if violence was some kind of free show for their entertainment.

And here’s one scene that perfectly captures the absurdity of our reality.

Five Against One — and Zero Reaction: Warsaw, Summer

Hala Mirowska, summer. I just stopped by to buy some flowers. And there — five drunk homeless men attacking a boy, maybe 19 years old, probably just got his driver’s license. “He parked wrong,” they said — in a spot where local “parking managers” expect a few coins.

Taxi drivers stood by laughing. People watched like it was some kind of street performance.
No one reacted. Not one.

I stopped my car in the middle of the road, turned on my hazards, got out, and told the men — in their own language — to get the hell out of there before their favorite blue-uniformed friends took them to their favorite place — the drunk tank.

They scattered.
People stared. Someone laughed.
Then I got called names for “blocking traffic.”
The boy drove off in tears.

From today’s perspective — that really needs no further comment.

A Party, Silence, and Jealousy

Once, at a party, someone started harassing me.
Everyone saw it. No one reacted.
Not even the friend I was with — a woman so consumed by jealousy that instead of feeling empathy, she felt satisfaction.
For her, my pain was a moment of triumph.
My reaction — defending myself — she called “aggressive behavior.”

The next day, she called people, spreading lies about me to discredit me.
We’re talking about a woman who has a small daughter.
A woman who once said about her own child that she was “a peasant girl” she was ashamed of — about a three-year-old.

What kind of monster says something like that about their own child?
A woman who sides with an abuser and feels shame toward her own daughter should be ashamed of even calling herself a woman.
Our friendship didn’t last long — a few months at most — but that’s enough to see who someone truly is. After that night, we never spoke again.
I feel deeply sorry for that little girl, because she has no noble example to learn from — only a reflection of everything she should never become.

Always be cautious of jealous people — jealousy is the beginning of hatred, and hatred eventually turns into violence.
Life has taught me to cut off jealous friends without hesitation — they will never truly wish you well.
I also avoid jealous men, because they will always try to diminish you when they feel inferior.

A real, healthy relationship can only exist with a man who inspires your growth instead of competing with you out of insecurity. Same in friendship. 
A man who allows you to be a feminine woman is the only right choice.
Someone who knows you can do everything on your own — but won’t let you, because he’ll want to make your life easier, not harder.

A Relationship With a Psychopath and Another Lesson

I also saw human numbness when I ended a relationship with someone who turned out to be a psychopath.
One day I just left. I walked away from everything without looking back.
I chose myself.

These are not easy decisions — they’re real-life dramas.
And again — no one stood up for me.
People were so manipulated by the abuser that they believed I was the bad one.
They turned against me.

But I know one thing — the universe works by the law of energy.
Every lie eventually comes to light.
Every injustice returns to its source.
And those who act with truth and integrity will ultimately be elevated.
Energetic balance always exists.

Awareness and Monsters

People often think they can treat you badly, manipulate you, play games.
But if you’ve walked through hell — no narcissist or psychopath can scare you anymore.
All those characters are the same: empty, soulless, devoid of empathy, values, or authenticity.

Once you’ve recognized one, none of the others can fool you again.
The more you develop your awareness, the more these monsters fade.
At first, you analyze them. Then you just observe.
Eventually, they become emotionally irrelevant.

But never let yourself become indifferent to human suffering.
Violence must always be confronted.
You must react. Always. 

If you find yourself surrounded by deeply toxic people, take a moment to ask what patterns you might be repeating — and whom you’re attracting. It could be connected to the karma you came here to heal in this lifetime.

For most of my life, I was like a magnet for narcissists and psychopaths — in both relationships and friendships — until I finally realized it was a karmic pattern.
Once I became aware of it and healed the wounds I carried, the monsters stopped appearing in my life, because I no longer allow them near my energy.

Healed feminine energy — the divine feminine — is mama bear energy.
When necessary, she says, “Don’t f** with me.”*
That is real femininity — the energy you step into when you become someone who protects your inner child, someone who would have defended you when you were a child.

It’s a sacred balance between standing firmly in truth and embodying softness, kindness, and compassion.
That’s when you become whole.

And this doesn’t apply only to women — men carry both feminine and masculine aspects too. The goal is to bring them into balance — only then can we truly embody the divine feminine and divine masculine energies.

Justice as My Incarnation

Maybe it’s because my “cross of incarnation” is justice in Human Design.
Maybe because my Jupiter is in Libra — which in my personal astrology symbolizes karmic balance. Libra card in Tarot is Justice as well.
Maybe because life has taught me that the way you treat others comes back to you faster than you think.

I don’t take sides out of sympathy.
I choose the greater good.
I never compromise my values — and I never will.

Truth, Gratitude, Energy

When you follow higher good, your heart expands.
Even in hard times, gratitude opens something inside us that lifts our energy to levels most people will never experience.
These are elevated emotions — the ones Hawkins wrote about in his scale.

It’s just a shame that truly noble people are so rare today.

I also feel it’s important to talk about shame, because it’s everywhere.
People are ashamed to tell the truth, ashamed to take a stand, ashamed to speak about what happened to them.
Let’s be honest — shame is one of the most absurd inventions that ever existed.

As I continue my own journey of personal growth, I’ve been learning to release shame completely.
It’s like a gangrene of the soul — something society and religion instill in us to lower our vibration and self-worth.
To make us feel “not good enough.”
To make us ashamed of our bodies, our voices, and even of standing up for ourselves or others.

But shame gives nothing — it leads nowhere.
It only limits freedom.
And freedom cannot exist where shame is present.

This is a crucial thing to remember:
Don’t be ashamed of who you are, because you are extraordinary exactly as you are.
Don’t be ashamed of your scars — they shaped you.
From pain comes the highest form of understanding.

When you learn to be grateful for what happened to you — even if the experience was painful — you begin to see the world from an entirely different perspective.
Life becomes your teacher, and everything you go through is meant to help you grow into a better human being — one with greater understanding and a more open heart toward others.

Only those who treat others badly should feel ashamed — that is the real reason for shame.

Spiritual Grandiosity – The Premium Version of Emptiness

What shocks me most is how many people see themselves as spiritual saviors of the world — yet can’t say one kind word to their own family.
They gossip, lie, spread jealousy, aggression, and hate.
Their “spirituality” ends exactly where real self-work begins.

This is an epidemic — spiritual grandiosity.
Empty words. Empty promises. No authenticity.
No truth.

And just to be clear — I’ve seen it up close.
I know a woman who calls herself a “spiritual advisor.”
Over time it turned out to be nothing more than a pseudo-spiritual theatre, with not a trace of goodness in it.
She gossips about everyone — even her own clients, spreads rumors, fights with anyone who disagrees with her.
She abuses alcohol, becomes aggressive, and her behavior is so toxic it makes your skin crawl.

Beyond her words, there’s not a single spark of light.
Only manipulation, deceit, and bad guidance.
I won’t share examples — some things shouldn’t even be repeated — but watching her was enough to see that some people are completely detached from reality.

And yes — that’s also violence.
Spiritual, emotional, energetic violence.
One of the worst kinds — because it pretends to be light while spreading darkness.

Authenticity Is Your Superpower

Because truth costs.
Courage costs.
Authenticity costs.
But it has one priceless quality — it can’t be faked.

Those who turn their heads may laugh, lie, or slander you.
But they’ll never have what you have — the strength that comes from truth.

If you live by it, if you embody it — you truly possess a superpower.
The truest kind there is.

The Closing Truth

In the end, one question always remains — who do you want to be?
Someone who looks away, or someone who stands for truth, even if it means standing alone?
I chose truth. I chose authenticity, even when it hurts.
Because only then can you live in harmony with yourself — pure, honest, and free of masks.
Only then does life begin to align.
And even if the path feels lonely, it always leads exactly where it should.

Life is a mirror — it reflects who we truly are.
Light always returns to those who carry it, even if they stumble in darkness for a while.
Don’t seek understanding from those who don’t see — just keep shining.
Authenticity always finds its way, and truth will always come to light.

I no longer feel the need to explain my strength.
I don’t need to defend or prove myself.
I survived everything that was meant to break me — and that’s what made me.
I am living proof that truth, courage, and justice aren’t just words.
They are a direction. A mission. My superpower — and yours too. ;)

Love,

LA